We aren't going to be in control of everything. When you let go of trying to control it all, your energy will be more positive and you will feel more free and think of things that are actually meaningful.
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Positive Scenarios
Just how you can imagine a negative scenario, you can also imagine a positive one. You DO have the power to take control of your mind and your thoughts. Those intrusive thoughts that don't belong on your positive journey. Kick out the negative thinking and just think positive. It's not always easy but if you want to get there, you have to work at it. It is a gradual process like a lot of things in our lives, but when you can take control of your mind, the fear and anxieties that may come up again, will disappear much quicker.