You want positive people around you. Keep those around you who are trustworthy, authentic and don't have a consistency of breaking trust, speaking negatively of others, gossiping and putting others down. Create an inner circle of true friendship who you can call on, rely on and know that they have your best interest at heart. If someone isn't adding anything positive to your life, it's up to you if you want to continue in a friendship with them or stay in communication with them. You have to think about how you feel when you are around this person and when they come around. Do you tense up? Do you feel excited to see them? Do they bring a comfort to you? All things to keep in mind.
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Boundaries will set the tone for your inner circle
When someone has hurt you and crossed a boundary of yours, it's up to you if you want to allow that person back into your inner circle. Not everyone in your life will be there forever. Some people are in your life for just a season and that's okay. Remember, not everyone is for everyone and that's okay too. If someone wants out of your life, be thankful for the time with them and move on. What are some boundaries you will set today? For example, if you don't like when someone ignores you, then maybe that person may not be a good friend to you if that's not how you communicate. Another example would be if someone constantly gossips about others. That person may do the same with you and it's not easy to know if they won't. It's good to give another chance to someone if they crossed a boundary, but it's all about having and expressing a consistency of not breaking your boundaries.