You validate yourself, never needed from others. You accept yourself and your joy and happiness is in your own hands. So many times do people look to others to "make them feel" a certain way. We make ourselves feel they way we want. We have that power. People can contribute to your emotions but no one can "make you feel" any emotion without your permission. Don't look to others so that you can feel worthy and loved. You give that to yourself.
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You already know you're worthy
Don't fill your mind with things that aren't really you. You ARE good, you ARE worthy, you ARE accepted.